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The Dark Heart: Finding Creativity in your Shadow

 

I offer imaginative ways to get to know and honor the shadow selves we all possess, while loosening their protective influence on you. Take a journey of inner exploration and self discovery through a variety of experiences - in nature, meditation, artistically, with writing, etc. Discover your inner landscape of selves while playfully experiencing hands on activities. I will provide a safe container to connect you with your creative “genius”. Along the way you will  learn about the shadow voices that hold you back and no longer serve you.

You can create your life, the one you were born to live, instead of living the one dictated to you.

 

 
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What is the Dark Heart?

 
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Within each of us is a shadowy place that feels scary or emotionally dark. Where dwell the parts of self that you have a tenuous relationship with, or parts that take control and steer you towards sabotaging patterns in life. I call this place the Dark Heart. But within the shadows of the Dark Heart are also light and creative energies waiting to be released. 

When you explore your Dark Heart, you increase your awareness of all the voices you carry within so you can gain a deeper understanding of how they influence you. You begin to hear their messages with objectivity so you can practice balanced decision making. The treasures of the Dark Heart are not only dark, they can also enliven you with insights, imagination, and dreams. Life feels more playful, lighter, and fulfilling.

The Dark Heart says… Live your life, even the shadows!

To access these voices, I use the method of Voice Dialogue.

“We find beauty not in the thing itself but in the patterns of shadows, the light and the darkness, that one thing against another creates… Were it not for shadows, there would be no beauty.” Junichiro Tanizaki

 

Death Cafe

What is a Death Cafe? The fact that one day we are all going to die is one of the few things we can be certain of in life, yet so few of us talk about it. So when we do come closer to death - our own or those we love - we are often ill prepared to handle the range of emotions that we must face.

Talking about and sharing your thoughts, beliefs, experiences, and concerns can help you to live life in a more considered way so that when the impacts of death and dying present, a deeper understanding will already dwell within.

A Death Cafe provides a safe, informal space for people to connect over tea and cake with no set topic other than to explore ideas/beliefs around death. For general information about the Death Cafe movement, click on this link: Welcome to Death Cafe.


 
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There is Creativity and Wisdom in the Shadows

When creative juices are lost, it’s usually from being layered over with distractions of technology, responsibilities, and the stresses of modern life. But the most stifling is hearing inner voices of self-judgement and self-criticism. It can be much more dangerous inside your own mind! We all hold an amazing array of characters within. These inner voices can influence you to feel guilty, overwhelmed, invisible, not good enough, and more. They contribute to low motivation, experiencing recurring and difficult events that challenge you more and more, exhaustion, and shutting a good portion of yourself down.

How can you navigate these blockages? Well, it’s never easy, but it isn’t impossible. And it can’t be done alone. Support is imperative. I know in my life, when I was in those dark places, I not only had a community of family and friends, but elders, teachers, mentors, therapists, and coaches who guided and held me through. And you simply must go through, not continue to avoid.

There is hidden power in the dark side and to access it means meeting your shadow. The less attention you pay to the shadow, the more you push your authentic self away. Those hidden parts of you will continue to get your attention in sabotaging ways. But it doesn’t have to be all serious exploration. There is also playing and allowing yourself to explore your own, unique creative expression! Adults forget how to be playful. My coaching involves the following to reconnect you to your authentic inner well of creativity:

  • Intuitive, deep listening, along with using Voice Dialogue

  • Creative, artistic, playfulness to increase curiosity

  • Explorative experiences that increase openness to problem solving

  • Mirroring* so you can begin to hear messages from your deeper wisdom

    *Clear reflections of the stories you express. By hearing them from an outside perspective, you gain a deeper and even archetypal meaning that raises your awareness and understanding about them.


 
With my riding camel, Anarani, in the Sahara Desert

With my riding camel, Anarani, in the Sahara Desert

 

Hi. I'm Lisa

My work (and this site) is devoted to helping people live with more joy, ease, and freedom through workshops, private coaching, and writing to guide you toward creating a life you love.

 
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Our society thrives on finding tangible answers which feeds the mind, but there is also value in paying attention to the wildness of nature - that of the world around us as well as our inner nature. “...what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
— Mary Oliver